Well, I have so much to say, I do not know where I should start.... Last month we were in our way to Ethiopia to pick up our son. Now, we are home since three weeks, busy, tired, exhausted but very happy to have our family of three. So much things happen since last month and I can say that my life have entirely change since I am a mother. The first week, in Ethiopia, was really hard. The next two at home were too. However, I have to say that since two days we have start to enjoy our family routine. Before, everything seem so bizarre for me, for my hubby and more then ever for my son. Attachment is not magical and it take a lot of time. Today, I went to the park alone with my son and we enjoy spend time together. It was the first time since three weeks that we have feel a special connection together.
I will be happy to tell more about our new life in the next few days....
Hang in there, Naomi. I hear over and over that the first 6 weeks are the hardest. I'm glad you had a few good days and I hope it continues!!
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So nice to hear things are settling for you! Post some photos soon!
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I am glad you had a nice time at the park - I find some of those relaxed outings are the best thing for me to unwind and try to enjoy the kids a bit more (at home, it seems harder, with little people following me around, trying to figure out how to occupy everyone, etc.). I don't know if I would have guessed that going out could actually be easier and more relaxing than staying home...but since that's the case, I'm thinking summer is definitely the best time of year for this type of adjustment - so many options to get out and do something interesting! Glad the past couple of days have been better for you.
RépondreSupprimerMon anglais est pas terrible , je comprends bien par contre . Lache pas , l'attachement va venir sous peu et je suis certaine que tu multiplieras les moments agréables avec ton garcon
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Lady :) xx
Merci ma belle Lady, ça me fait toujours plaisir de recevoir un petit mot de ta part. Je n'ai pas oublié mes lecteurs francophones. Je vais prendre le temps d'écrire en français prochainement.
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